Fear will cause you to not just create excuses but also complain and blame others. This is something we tend to do in fear as a way to avoid the fact that we have taken the responsibility of giving into fear and dropping the ball in our own lives... So while fear is the seed,… Continue reading Some fruits of Fear…..
His NO is just as perfect as His YES
God has taught me in my time of singleness that His no, is just as perfect as His yes.... We have to break the entitled religious mindset that God will always say yes to us when we want something. Many times we look for the yes based on our desires. But He looks for the… Continue reading His NO is just as perfect as His YES
I think I need to clear some stuff up... Letting a bad thing go may still require a difficult sacrifice. The thing is, we have to get to the point of understanding true value to understand true sacrifice. For some it’s a sacrifice, for others it’s a needed step to be free. Too many people… Continue reading Letting Go……
So... You made it through the Thanksgiving Holiday!!! Congratulations!!!!! One more major holiday coming very soon to get through..... Many times during the holidays those who are more fortunate see it as a time to break from work or school (Like me, pray for me yall. Finals are among us!!) and to celebrate with family… Continue reading Holiday Help
Send ME to Africa
I remember sitting at a christian conference in 2012. I was in a doctorate program and failing. I was physically sick with an illness that doctors could not explain. Debt was piling up between school, doctors, and just plain emergencies that a college student can't afford. A friend invited me to this conference and I… Continue reading Send ME to Africa
Just a few thoughts on sex trafficking….
Someone asked if I thought the sex trafficking issue was just something the media was hyping up.... I believe that sex trafficking has always been an issue. The thing is, society is just discovering how minorities are being treated so a lot of what has already been happening is only JUST being brought to light.… Continue reading Just a few thoughts on sex trafficking….
Church hurt/People Hurt
So, recently I was hurt by someone in the church. It wasn't "church hurt". It was a hurt from someone who is a christian. I guess they are both kind of the same. I don't think we will ever get use to anyone hurting us. No matter what type of hurt it is. It could… Continue reading Church hurt/People Hurt
Taking a “bid” for your mate…
Good morning,Yesterday someone asked me if I would take a "bid" for my man. This meaning, would I go to jail because of something my man did. (SN: I'm still single lol, this person asked me a hypothetical question.) The conversation wasn't extended because we had to work, but I do pray that I am… Continue reading Taking a “bid” for your mate…
Made a mistake……. (sigh)….
There’s a verse, “Choose Ye THIS day, who you will serve.” This verse rings in my head very often, especially when I make mistakes. I made a mistake last month. I had sex. To be honest I’m not sure if it was a mistake. The Bible says to choose who you will serve, but… Continue reading Made a mistake……. (sigh)….
The Struggle is Real…. BUT
We often have battles in life that can be overwhelming. I tend to be a very emotional person and as a result I end up fighing my situation AND my emotions just so that I can have a clear mind. Many battles are internal. Recently one of my mentees was having a hard time and… Continue reading The Struggle is Real…. BUT